Self-loved is NOT called Selfish

Self-loved is NOT called selfish. Why? Because at some points, all you need to do is to love yourself, to put yourself as priority. I meant to love yourself deeply. How many times did you say I'm fine while tears actually rolling down on your face? And why did you tell a lie? Probably, you and I got the same reason of this white-lie, and that is because we know exactly that none of them truly care, and most importantly none of them really listen to us by heart. How many of you wish to have just a hug from somebody you love in your toughest moment? And how many of you fail your own expectation again and again? At some points, you have to accept the truth, the truth that at the end of the day the only person who never left your hands apart is YOU, YOURSELF. That is why self-loved become the core value of being a human in this century. The moment when you realized that you put too much love and efforts into someone, not in any purpose, just in hope of the feeling of being loved in a return, but what you got is self-disappointed. Then, you finally realized that you are just being damn stupid, stupid to waste your whole efforts on someone who doesn't deserve it, who doesn't see the value of all such things. Probably, All you wanna do is being isolated with your foolishness to a place where there is only you that accompany yourself, only you that understand how its pain to be treated that way. After a while, you finally learn to love yourself a little bit harder, yeah just a little harder. You start to search for more opportunities to learn and grow yourself rather than just waiting for miracle to happen, or to stuck in the painful area. You learn to go on a solo trip, to pick yourself up when you fall into pieces, you finally dare to explore the world by doing what you always fear of doing, and you learn how to smile with, or without the one you need the most. It is surely the toughest moment or stage or your grown-up, but trust me ladies, you are strong enough to pass through this storm. You are beautiful, and you meant it! Keep your standard high, the right one will come sooner or later, just be patient! And, that is how you grow up with maturity, maybe ! :)